In Every native or Nigerian culture children are the pride of their parents 

The question is how are you proud of a thief, a liar or promiscuous son ?? 
Oh I know the proverb in one of our native language(Hausa ) “a woman can only give birth to a child but not his character “that’s true  but could you believe me , if I tell you that the number of children you bring to life in a particular situation or circumstances affects their personality to be  

You wonder how and why ? 
Wanting a number of children is not the issue when you have the ability to take full responsibility but when you know the means of livelihood is uncertain and children responsibility is a lot to handle , I personally think that’s a circumstance to  reconsider child birth rate 

When Child birth  control is weighed  against religion, we all might agree that abortion is not an option and  neither is bringing up public nuisance an option .when we want a better nation and society We All agree planning your family is  a step  to have  a beautiful home and enhance societal peace . All am saying is  Don’t bring a child into the world you are not ready to take his/her  complete responsibility  , be it on religious provisions, societal expectations, or law-full obligations .