The power of apology in relationships cannot be overstated. Oftentimes, both parties, out of pride, wait to see who will kneel first, while their relationship, once strong, begins to wither like a stone constantly battered by rainfall.
A simple "I am sorry, please forgive me" can mean everything, but some people struggle to say these words, even when they know they are at fault.
They perceive saying sorry as a sign of weakness or lack of discipline. For those who think this way, saying sorry can lead to personal growth. This isn't just for married couples—it's for everyone. No one is perfect, but we can always do the right thing by saying, "I am sorry."
When you can't bring yourself to apologise, it often reflects silent arrogance, irresponsibility, and excessive pride.
Mr. Discipline, Mrs. Discipline—you who would rather die than admit you are wrong. I know she's a woman and considered the weaker gender, but don't you think the "weak" gender is capable of anything too?
I have learned that the wisest person is the one who says sorry even when they're not wrong, just for peace to reign. You will find that when you do this with your friend or partner, they may have a moment of reflection.
I am actually talking about sorry being the medicine for fiancées, husbands and wives, or let's add soulmates, boyfriends, and girlfriends. Sorry, in this context, means to apologise.
Another perspective is that when you say sorry and your friend refuses to accept the apology or pretends to accept it, you, who apologised, will be at peace. Indeed, sorry is a weapon to defeat the opponent.
Also beware of those insincere apologies like, 😊 "I am sorry, nah" 🙄 or "sorry if that's what you want"—they don't count.
Indeed, true apologies have the power to melt a broken heart, and the words that can achieve this are "I am sorry."
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