And now I officially declare the month of March open for everyone else to celebrate their birthdays😅.

Honestly, having my birthday on the first of March is so fun. I also recently realized that I narrowly escaped being born on the last day of February 🫢 - I could have been a leap year baby that celebrates every four years, but heaven said “No, don't make her the last, make her the first.”

And that's how I want to live my life - being a trendsetter, leading and letting others follow.

Now, that's a very wonderful thing to say, it feels great in your mouth the way advice fills up rich peope's mouths, but the reality is that it takes A LOT of work. 

I don't even like leading.

Yes. I said it.

I'd rather just follow what someone else is doing and leave all the heavy lifting to them (I'm just my father's baby🤧), but the thing about living life like that is that you never stand out.

No one ever notices you, you never do anything extraordinary and you remain…you.

I can't afford to be part of the crowd.

My mother told me, just like everyone's mother told them, that I'm the head and not the tail, halleluyurr somebody - I'm above and not beneath, praise God (in my pastors voice).

Okay, so what makes me different from Daddy Festus and Mummy Nkechi's children? Well I don't know but it might be the fact that I actually believe my mother.

But the process is long oh, I won't lie to you. The journey is far.

It will feel as if you want to die, but the truth of the matter is that you will not die, so MANAGE!

As I start another year of trying to be everything my mother has prophesied into my life and more, you can make the decision to join me.

Cakes and Candles.