Action is said to be louder than words. To me, action is louder than thoughts.
Can you control your thoughts?
No, right?
Why then do you wallow in it instead of snapping out and acting upon the good thoughts.
Thoughts don't achieve anything except for wastage of time.
So upon every good thoughts that comes to your mind, write them down and go ahead to strategic all execute them.
Take it one day at a time.