Things in life are already hard. People are going through things behind closed doors & in private. I wish people could just be nice.
There are always two sides to every story, people will always put their nose where it doesnāt belong, people will always write their own story about you, a lot of people are always the victim no matter the circumstances, people will always try to replicate you & your hard work, people will always try to outshine you and what you built on your own, people will always forget the help you gave them out of the kindness of your heart, people will try their best to tear you down, people will always try to make everything a competition, people will always try to make you the villain in their story, and people will come & go.
The past couple weeks have taught me to not stress whatās out of your control and to let things just roll off your shoulders. You canāt keep allowing people to step on your worth and ruin your peace. You have to do whatās best for you in all situations without guilt or fear of recourse. No one has to know the āstoryā or āsituationā when YOU know. So, it is what it is.
You can make all the posts you want about how amazing you are, how accepting you are and how much better you are than others, but all you are actually doing is making people doubt you & your intentions. People who are secure donāt feel the need to constantly āsell themselvesā to people. Eventually, the real you will show through, whether itās good or bad.
People see you & can see through everything. Actions speak far louder than empty words.
People need to stop the hate, stop the bullying & stop the belittling.
In the end, does any of it actually matter? We are going to look back and see how much we allow situations to drain us, steal our precious time and steal our happiness.
Be authentic and genuine. Be you, donāt keep trying to be someone else. Give from your heart and stop doing things just to get that pat on the back.
Iām over feeling depleted, upset & bothered by peopleās words & actions. From this point moving forward, Iām done with negativity, Iām done with feeling drained bc of peopleās actions & words. I WILL start using all of it as FUEL to my fire and keep moving forward.
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