Home a place of refuge . Where I get abode the sweetest place to be . There's no love in the world compared to that of home. I would say that no one love anything else apart from their own. Take this instance, you bought that one thing you always always desire and someone gave you theirs ,there will be disparities in the level of care, admiration,respect and love for the one given and the one owned. Now putting this example into reality no one will give value to what's not theirs even in the Bible as a reference during the time of Solomon when two women where arguing to own the child he ordered that the child should be bisected. One of them proposed and the other opposed in tears. By this act he  already knows the owner. Fast forward to this I will say this "your own is your own". Don't let your kids be in the hands of devourers they seem to help genuinely but that child will never be valued or taken as their own.