‎In Yoruba culture, ìdúpẹ́ (gratitude) is regarded as a significant and highly valued act. According to the Oxford Dictionary, gratitude refers to the state of being grateful. However, before gratitude exists, there must first be an act of kindness; someone offering help, love, or support. The feeling that follows, and the desire to appreciate that act, is what the Yorubas call ìdúpẹ́.

‎The Yorubas say, “Ope ni o pẹ́ ni s’áyé,” which means “He who shows appreciation lives long.” There is also an adage that says:

‎“Ká s’ore ká dúpẹ́, ká lè rí mi gbà ní; bí a bá ṣe ẹni l’ore, ope la ń dá.”

‎This emphasizes that when good is done to a person, gratitude is the rightful response.

‎The Yoruba people believe deeply in the spirit of gratitude and place great value on it. Gratitude is not only seen as good manners but as a moral and spiritual responsibility.

‎My mother always emphasized the importance of being grateful whether to people, for favors received, or to God for provision and answered prayers. She taught me that gratitude keeps the heart humble and the soul connected.

‎To me, gratitude is not just an act; it is an expression of love and grace. when spoken sincerely, it invites grace, love, and long life.