I know this sounds absurd but hear me out
I’ve been dwelling in this relationship sphere for a while now but trust me it’s not my niche, it just comes at me. It’s a phase so just be patient till it’s over. I’ll say this again( not like I’ve said it before) love is for everyone okay? are we clear? Just some easier than others. And all I’m here to do it tackle this absurd topic(or not)
So introverts and extroverts, this really hit home( no I won’t tell you what category I fall under) love is a beautiful thing and if you’ve been in love before(I mean for real for real) you will agree with me. I’m going to define both categories myself, I mean what am I increasing my IQ in school for if I ask google everything. Introverts are people likely to stay ‘in’ a relationship while extroverts like be to ‘EX’ (I’m kidding! I’m kidding!)
Google came to my rescue by defining introverts as individuals who gain energy by spending time alone or in quiet, low-stimulation environment and feel drained by excessive social interaction. They are typically introspective, preferring deep, meaningful connections over large crowds and thoughtful, deliberate actions over impulsive ones. Just take a look at those great qualities. They prefer one-on-one conversations over small talk in large groups. Before I tell you how great this is let’s talk extroverts
Extroverts are a people who gain energy from social interaction, they are outgoing, and feel energized by being around others. They are typically gregarious, enthusiastic, and comfortable with, or often prefer, being the center of attention. Extroverts process thoughts by talking them out and are usually optimistic. They tend to have wide social circles, are quick to introduce themselves to new people, and feel comfortable engaging with strangers. Hmm okay
What is a relationship and what are the requirements for a lasting one, let’s dive in and relate it to our groups. A relationship is what you define it as because you are so smart. Let’s go to the requirements. The first one here is trust and honesty. Someone once told me that people who talk a lot are most likely to lie. Now don’t look at me like that I didn’t say it. Google doesn’t put it plainly and neither will I. I’ll just say I’m sure introvert lie too especially when you try to invite them out… so let’s split that point 50/50 for both sides. The next one is effective communication. While it may look like extroverts have this one in the bag, I don’t think it is so. Introverts strive in one on one deep conversation while extroverts prefer groups. Relationship is a one on one things it should be resolved internally between those involved and there is the part of active listening. Let’s give introverts the win yeah?
The next point is mutual respect it involves valuing a partner’s individuality, opinions, and boundaries. Respect is especially crucial during disagreements; healthy couples avoid name-calling, belittling, or "winning" at the expense of the other. Hmmm name calling? Okay, need I say more? Noooo I’ll let you guys decide the win for this one. Introverts have a lot of boundaries and it’s easier to respect other people’s boundary knowing how important it is to you. Just saying
Relationships also involves maintaining separate identities, hobbies, and friendships prevents "suffocation" and allows both individuals to grow, which ultimately enriches the relationship (refer back to opposite sides don’t ‘attract’ for full gist.)
This can go on and I but I think the conclusion we have drawn of that this topic isn’t absurd at all. While both personalities have their pros as they have their cons and the most important thing about relationship is sacrifice. So if you are an introvert or extroverts you can still make the relationship work bit drawing more on your good side.