It is childishness that makes people always want things for themselves without necessarily thinking of how to give out too. only kids ask who will buy this or do that for me. Maturity has a way of upgrading your mind from being a collector/receiver to a provider/giver (taking responsibilities)
Sometimes people ask for things they can't give 50% themselves. Asking for treatments that they can't give to others. And if you're in the "Do me I do you" geng, set awọn passive humans that can't be nice to people until they're nice to them first; you're not yet mature.
You want people to adjust to your pace? whose pace have you adjusted to? you're looking for people that will give you peace of mind and support you in all you do? How many people have you given peace of mind and support?
Sometimes people get too used to receiving that they forget to give. Some get angry and cut people off because they no longer receive from these people again. Takers mentality🤦🏾♂️
Some like to be tolerated; set awọn "That's who I am, you just have to accept me like that" and this same people won't extend this same grace to other people and tolerate them. So others should tolerate you but you can't tolerate others abi? You're not the only one in this world naw.
The people you want to cut off, could it be that the problem is you not adjusting to their pace? Is that how you want to keep cutting people off ?
May you not cut off your destiny helper because of takers mentality sha.
It's the season of love (everyday is supposed to be a season of love sha), think of love from the perspective of a giver not the receiver.
It takes divinity to love without expecting anything in return, if it is possible, give/show love without expecting any back 💕
I Love you big.