A NOTE TO ALL YOUNG LADIES IN RELATIONSHIPS

Read this carefully.

As a young lady, one mark of wisdom in premarital relationships is never reaching a point where you feel comfortable taking naked pictures or videos of yourself to send to a boyfriend.

A man may say,

“I want to see how God crafted you, your bare curves and all the beauty your body carries. You are mine. There is nothing wrong with sharing, and do not worry, they will be safe.”

Young lady, listen.

Such a request is not love.

It is manipulation disguised as love.

A man who genuinely loves and respects you will never ask for access to your nakedness.

Even when emotions feel strong, say no without hesitation.

Relationships change.

People change.

Promises fade.

It is also sinful and unwise to take and share naked pictures.

The moment you send those pictures, you instantly lose control over them.

You cannot decide where they go, who sees them, and they cannot be taken  back.

When misunderstandings come, breakups happen, or  another person accesses his phone or laptop, the images and videos can be shared, leaked, or used against you.

This can result in shame, damaged reputation, legal problems, pain to your family, and dishonor to God.

A wise young woman does not go cheap.

She knows her body is sacred.

She knows her value.

The only man worthy to see your naked body is your future husband.

You may not have met him yet, even if it feels like the boyfriend you have now is already the one.

Be a God fearing woman.

Honor the Lord with your body.

Keep yourself pure as the temple of the Holy Spirit.

Be faithful to your future husband.

Together with God, and for God, we can make a difference.

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